In order to unlock our growth in this life we have to be willing to do the hardwork. The shadow work to sit with ourselves and find the lesson and the blessing in all situations.

When we start breaking down all of the relationships we have had in our lifetime. The lesson has always been the first thing that comes to mind. We all know what someone taught us to make us grow. The blessing that is more difficult. What did the teach us? What did we admire about them? My ex-husband was an emotionally abusive narcissistic MF’er but his blessing to me besides our beautiful children was he would have died before he let his family do without.

So, what are your lessons and blessings?